In high school, college or office, while someone is leaving, a send-off is arranged. Same is true, when one's returning and the relatives/friends arrive till bus-stop/station to see you off. Though this has come as a standard practice, these were opportunities to reflect, grieve and complete our thoughts, emotions about the current setup, from which one is separating.
This is applicable to everything that we separate from as in starting of the school for the children, waking them up in the morning, changing their food habits, anyone changing a routine, becoming dad/mom, becoming a Project Manager from Lead, from service to starting a business. Some changes are small, some are big and very impactful as in separation thru death, divorce, re-locating. They are in various categories: job, location, relations, roles, education, friends, traffic, culture and so-on.
When a change is about to begin, we need to complete the current setup. All that is required is to understand that we are getting into a change, reflect, grieve and complete about it in thoughts and emotions. Sometime this would take a small time, sometime long time. Thats why we say 'Time will heal everything'.
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